Do Not Ask for Permission

Take a sledgehammer

to the statue

they have erected of you

fashioned by their own fancies

of how you should look,

who should be.

Do not

ask for permission.

Smash it

into a thousand shoulds

you sweep into the dustpan.

Then stand naked

in front of your own mirror

and dress

in your softest words

of wisdom

whispering from within.

Written by Kaveri Patel

(2012 copyright) used without permission mea culpa

Labour Day weekend

I’m feeling quite melancholy this Labour Day weekend.   Writing can be good medicine.   Not to mention there is nothing like a banyan tree to make you feel small!   Here I am about a month ago on vacation in Hawaii.   Charlie played hooky from his conference and we visited the Honolulu Zoo.   It was a lovely grounds.   Too bad we visited during the heat of the day.   Many of the animals were resting.  It was a nice visit anyway.  Aren’t these banyan trees just magnificent?   Double click on the image to get the full impact of this picture….it’s beautiful and captures the pensiveness of the moment and the emotional landscape today.   You might be drawn to read the poem below by Steven Ratiner Poet in Residence at Massachusetts Cultural Council.   IMG_20150801_124427616

“Drowned Syrian Toddler Washes Up On
Turkish Resort Beach Near Bodrum”

It looks as if he’s listening.
Ear pressed against wet sand, this
three-year-old Odysseus:
What sings? What is taking place
beneath sea beneath earth which
no one told me about? Where
were they taking me? Who
will I be once I get there?’

This is where the Aegean left him –
red tee unveiling the swollen belly,
sodden blue shorts barely shielding his knees.
What should have been school shoes
will crack now and bleach from brine and sun.
Already, a salt halo drying atop his crown.

Half-listening to the evening news –
latest war, latest disaster, refugees
swept from one misery to another,
as regular as the tides. Did I just
mishear the reporter’s question:
‘Whose child isn’t this?’

— Steven Ratiner

(used with permission)

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_of_Alan_Kurdi